We're queer and we're here

Someone I know through face book and chat to about how awesome skating is raised a question recently... Where are the queer skaters and queer culture within skating? He'd just come out as queer to his skate friends and it had been a complete non event (rather like my experience of coming out as queer to my skate friends), and he was wondering why, if skaters are so open minded (and they are), isn't there a recognised queer culture in skating?

It's a good question... The are undoubtedly lots of queer skaters, and queer and skate culture both have roots in rebellious counter cultures where the freedom to express yourself was prized, so why do queer skaters, by and large, choose not to share that bit of themselves with the world?

At this point someone usually chimes in with the “someone's sexuality has no place in skating, skaters are skaters” argument. Which is great, except for the fact that saying something doesn't actually make it true. When sponsored queer skaters are asking where the rest of the queer skaters are - it is a problem... Not because queer skaters should have to broadcast the fact that they're queer, but simply because virtually no one has. There are some high profile, openly queer female skaters but I can't think of any equivalent guys. EDIT - I now know that there is at least one openly queer male pro in the longboarding world.

There is a huge problem with homophobia in skating, and it's very rarely addressed. You may think that throwing the term “gay” about when your buddy does something stupid or a bit lame is harmless, but it isn't. It subtly frames gay in the negative, and given that even in these supposedly enlightened times people are still struggling with coming out, being reminded that gay = wrong by a bunch of people who claim to be accepting of difference can be like a kick in the cunt. And don't get me started on using faggot as an insult because right now, somewhere in the world, someone is being beaten to death by people yelling that very word at them*. So just don't okay.

There is a macho culture that permeates skating, you know, the whole lifestyle thing of how long your last standie was, how fast you've been, how much skin you've sacrificed to skatan and how many beers you've shot gunned at the end of the day. Which is cool, a lot of skating can be like that, but when it gets packaged up and sold by big business as the entirety of the skating lifestyle it creates a toxic space where being perceived as anything other than some sort of hyper-bro stereotype is frowned upon. And because stereotypical bros are always straight, queer skaters get pushed aside. Life isn't that black and white though, how you act and project yourself has little relation to who you're attracted to, but there's this enduring and completely false belief that queer women are women who want to be guys and queer guys are guys who want to be women. And that all feeds into the way the patriarchy deems anything to do with women to somehow be lesser than men, so we end up in a situation where gay and faggot are used as put downs for guys who don't conform.

This is bullshit and we need to call time on it right now, because the “skaters are skaters” line should be true... who you're attracted to has no bearing on your ability to skate, just as your gender has no bearing on your ability to skate. But skaters, and the skate community, need to act in a way that makes this true, rather than just firing off the line when ever anyone tries to talk about it. So stop throwing gay and faggot around as insults, and call out your friends when they do it, because you never know who is listening. Make skating a space that is truly welcoming to anyone who wants to be a part of it.

As skaters we've spent far too long ignoring this issue, pretending that it doesn't exist. But people are ready to talk about it... This is just a start. Basically we're queer and we're here... actually we've always been here. But that really doesn't change anything so lets go skate.

*I have no way of determining if this is true but it probably is because the world can suck when you're queer.

Skate like a girl

Alicia Fillback just put her latest edit out and it's covered in awesome sauce. She knows how to skate down hills and does it in style. This is not a problem, like I said it's awesome and she's a huge inspiration for me as a skater. The Cook Your Own Damn Meals edit she did with Carmen Shafer is still one of my favourite skate videos of all time, and I the first time I watched it I remember just wanting to be able to skate like that. Two years on and I'm firmly moving towards that goal.

What I'm pissed about is someone on facebook, after watching the video trotted out the “she skates like a guy” line and meant it as a compliment. And it's a compliment that often comes from the mouths of guys who will tell you that gender has no place in skating because skaters are skaters.

Except when they're girls it seems.

I can't speak for Alicia, and what drives her passion for skating but what I do know is that she skates like someone who understands the form of DH sliding and has begun to master it. I also know that form isn't gendered, form is merely technique and anyone can learn technique given enough drive, determination and most importantly of all, time. I get that there aren't a whole lot of female riders who skate that way and people are used to only seeing guys skate that way, but that doesn't mean that understanding and mastering form is an exclusively male domain, or that any girl who understands and masters the form has to skate like a guy, or be one of the boys, or any other of the tired cliches that people trot out in order to do it. If skating truly is genderless then she skates like a skater, and if you do want to bring gender into it, then she skates like a girl, a girl who rips.

End of story.

Except there's more to the story... I think the whole skating like a guy stereotype of girls who shred can put off other girls who want to skate like that but don't really want to be seen as that tomboy skater chick. Yeah there are plenty of girls who are tomboy skater chicks (I'm one of them), but the fact that we are tomboys has nothing to do with the fact that we're skaters... Okay, maybe a bit because we do fit the whole stereotype, but we still don't skate like guys, because (shock, horror) we aren't guys. There's a whole lot of macho bullshit culture in skating, which I think comes from big companies trying to sell a life style to teenage boys, and saying someone skates like a girl is often used as a putdown (also calling things gay, but that's another issue). We need to stop this, skating like a girl is a good thing, especially when the skating is defined by the girls doing it. And you know what, once we've accepted that we'll actually be moving towards a place where skaters really are just skaters. 

And here's the video because it is amazing and everyone should watch it and be inspired, because Alicia Fillback is badass.


Blood Orange: Introducing Alicia Fillback from Blood Orange on Vimeo.